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What is the best online personals site(s) for lesbians? I know there are a lot of lesbians in Austin,tx ... yet i cant seem to find any... it's like they all know each other already or something | superdyke.com
It's Canadian, but they have a lot of friends everywhere. | Answering Lesbian Personals... Creepy or Cute? I'm a 19 year old lesbian and I've been trying out some online dating sites in hopes of finding a girl to hang out with or possible start dating during the summer while I'm home from college. The downside is that all the dating sites I've tried allow you to view other members profiles, send a little greeting (like "Hi there!"), but not actually get in contact with the person unless you're willing to pay upwards of 20 dollars for a monthly subscription.
Anyway, I found this really cute girl who lives fairly close to me on one of these sites, and would like to contact her. I checked the web for other instances of the username she used on the dating site, and was able to find a website (a lesbian story site) in which she had posted her e-mail address.
Would it be considered way creepy to e-mail her, or do you think she would find it to be sweet that someone wanted to get in touch with her that badly?
Seriously, I'm not a creeper, I just know how to use the internet. | No, just tell her that you saw her on that site,and she obviously left her email adress so people could email her right? I think she might like it.
It won't hurt to try.
Good Luck | Should I go and meet this woman I met online? We met at an online personals site. She and I are both lesbians, both over 50, and live within 80 miles of each other. She seems really nice, but I feel like she is already getting into a "relationship" with me. I mean I am not ready to commit to anyone. And she seems to think we aren't going to meet anyone else. Not sure what to do.... she wants to meet at the end of september, half way. I feel uncomfortable with this. What do you think? | | If you even have the slightest doubt, don't do it, trust your instincts. | If you are young and married, but find out you're lesbian, would a woman see you as long as husband is ok with? PLEASE help. I definitely don't want to get a divorce, as my husband and I are best friends, and enjoy hanging out together, and he doesn't care about the physical stuff. I'm young and attractive, but I'm such a tomboy that I would be lost without my husband and other guy friends as pals, but I'm physically attracted to women, so if you are lesbian/queer/bisexual/etc... do you know if a woman be willing to have a relationship with me?
My husband already knows about me not being straight, so would the woman date me? It has taken a long time for me to accept myself as being not straight, and I do really feel isolated, as I don't even know any lesbians or bisexual women. I have no idea where to meet them. I started taking a class in the arts for fun at a local college, but everyone in there is hyper religious. They are nice people at heart, but I can't reveal I am attracted to women to them... I was hoping if I got out more I'd meet another woman who was in my situation or at least willing to have some fun.
Do they exist? I'm not sure what to do. I thought about joining a charity organization, to meet more people in general and have a positive affect on the community, but it looks like a lot of them are going to be religious. I live in an area of the country with really religious people who believe being gay is wrong. I am lucky that my husband and friends are so open minded, but I really don't know what to do. I tried online personals for women to meet women, but nobody ever responded...except really old men. I like working out, so joined an outdoor club, but there were mostly older guys in their 50s. They were nice, but I didn't meet any women in their 20s or 30s.
So anyways, if you have any advice or experience, please, please share...It's starting to feel hopeless. I just never wanted to admit my true feelings to myself about this, and I want to be able to find a woman who will understand...Is this possible at all? There is definitely a small gay part of town in this city, but it's the gay men that are highly visible. I could tell you where gay men meet. I could tell you the malls and nighclubs and streets where they live. But the women...no clue. There is only one extremely run-down lesbian bar full of alcoholic/smoker/drug-using older women that are really way out of my age group, and would have absolutely nothing in common with me. I'm even afraid to walk around by myself in the part of town where that bar is.
Where are the clean coffee shops you see lesbians hang out in on TV. What do I do? | Well, the question of whether or not a woman would date you if you stay married, well, I suppose that depends on the woman in question - if your hubby is ok with it, then I think that would go a long way.. I have some friends who have extremely healthy open relationships and they are both ok with it, other people may decide that they do not feel comfortable in a situation like that, and may not be as willing to move forward with a relationship. You need to realize that choosing to remain married will reduce the number of people in your dating pool.
As far as where to go - that really depends on where you are... you didn't give a lot of clues other than how difficult it will be... you will have more success in a big city, so maybe you should spend a weekend in a hotel in a downtown area, and peruse the clubs there... In a small town, even if there are other lesbians (I'm sure there are) they might be more reluctant (just as you are) to admit who they are and be shunned by the religious element you described. | Lesbian attraction for best friend? Before I told my friend, I think I'm bisexual, she told me her family thought she was a lesbian when she was younger.We were on the phone and I was on a personals site online.I mentioned that it was not men I was looking at.She didn't say anything.So fast forward a few years later.After being out late, instead of a long drive home, I stayed at her place.I let her know I am attracted to her and wanted have sex.She rejected me, but she added "Besides I'm on my period right now." She didn't want to talk about it anymore.I'm confused. I have feelings for her.I have not been with another female in my adult life, played around a little as a young girl. Should I try to talk to her about her feelings or leave it alone. I don't want to ruin our friendship. | | Forget about it. You will get hurt!!! I am still hurting cuz i fell for my BF. | Where online can I go to meet lesbians in my town? I am looking for a website that is inexpensive and other than Yahoo Personals. Thank you. | www.gaydar.co.uk should have a link to gaydar girls.
You could also try www.fridae.com and www.gay.com . Although these two are male-dominated, using the search feature, this shouldn't be a problem to you.
Good luck.
Nick
:) | My girlfriend is a lesbian??? I met my girlfriend two years ago and we were very happy together. However, about four months ago, I found her posted her profile on Myspace, yahoo personals etc. I didn't mean that I disallowed her to seek friendship online. The point was she said she needed something exciting from girls! She said she was actually a lesbian! (I found the fact by accident)
"You are guyding,right? Don't play games like that, baby"
"No, you don't understand me. But I have to say thank you since you help me to realize the fact about myself."
I was taken aback! What did I do? I was a man, a real man!
Like a storm! I attempted to know more about her. But she refused. She even met her so called MRS Right after she posted her profile on a lesbian dating site called Lesmingle.com. I was driven crazy. I emailed the site requesting them to delete her profile. She knew it and said she wanted to kill me! What can I do? I am a man! I help her to be a lesbian? This can actually kill me! | I think it's time to have THAT talk, since the cat's out of the bag anyway. Let her know that this is NOT what you signed up for when you first got together. Tell her that you are not happy with how things are, and quite simply unacceptable to you as a straight man!
Let her be, if she decides on her current path. Just know that you did NOTHING to "make" her gay. I always knew I was gay (since 9 y/o), and I believe she also knows this about herself, but has chosen to act according to what society has dictated as "normal" behavior.
If it ends in separation, I hope this fact gives you some measure of comfort; don't go blaming yourself for anything. The fact remains that she CHEATED and that is inexcusable, whether in a gay or straight relationship.
Good luck. | Where are the lesbians at on Craisglist? Not that I do a lot of online dating, but recently I've been searching craigslist for lesbians in my area, just out of curiosity. For some reason though, it seems like 70% of the people posting in the personals at all are gay men. Why? Where are all the ladies at? I know y'all are out there, so stop being so scared to open up and just do it already! Sheesh! | | I suppose for the lesbodians, like the straight women, craigslist is loserville. | Is this normal for a lesbian relationship?...? So recently, I noticed on my girlfriends phone, this guy named phillip asking her "when you gonna send me those pictures?". I found it odd but ignored it for about a day. I found it esp odd, because my girlfriend had just gotten a new phone THAT day, and he could have only gotten her number if she gave it to him. So, from my phone i texted him, saying i was her, asking what kind of pictures.
He replied with "feet, maybe ****".
I confronted my gf about it, and she said she ignored it, and hes some weird guy sjhe went to school with. Although if he was weird and she truly didnt want to do with him, he owuldnt have still been on her facebook page and her phone contacts.
She also has like....a weird obsession with looking at nudies of people online.
She gets boob pictures sent to her ohone and makes them her wallpaper,
and looks at them on google images, and craigslist personals.
I tell her its weird and maybe she has a problem, but it usually results in fights.
what should i do? | | i personally would NOT like this if my gf was doing this. i would think "she has me, why does she need to look at other peoples boobs?" its a little rude that she makes them her background on her phone. that doesnt sound respectful to you. and i wouldnt like it if she was talking sketchy to another person, male or female like that... id break up with her. theres more fish in the sea |
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